VA Aide and Attendance Forum. If you are a wartime Veteran or the surviving spouse of a Veteran, the Aid and Attendance Benefit could be an ideal solution for financing your senior housing. Join us for a special presentation about eligibility requirements, payable benefits, how to file claims me more. Please join us! Patriot Angels will be present to help explain benefits. Refreshments will be served. Please RSVP by 2/12.